Have you always asked yourself whether your girlfriend is happy and satisfied with you? Do you want to know how well a boyfriend you have been? More than just for reasons of vanity and narcissism, the very reason why a man would want to know whether or not his ladylove is happy is out of love. Naturally, you’d want to know that your efforts are well worth it because it does what it’s supposed to: make her happy.
So to help out your ego, here are some telltale signs that you have a happy lady in your ward:
- She tells you that she’s happy. Some girls are just so open they don’t need to be asked. You know your girl is happy if she blurts out how happy she is randomly. Her reaction after getting a big, shiny bling is not a good indicator; it’s a natural high. What I’m talking about is when you guys are cuddling quietly or just having some random conversation and she says she’s happy with you, believe it man. Believe it for it is real.
- She happily serves you. Whether it’s a sandwich after every sexy time, or preparing your bath for you every morning, or learning your favorite recipe for you, one of the best ways that a woman shows her happiness in a relationship is by service. If she does one extra mile for you today, you must have done something good. If she does it to you regularly, you have been giving her a reason to love you more and more and more.
- She is less moody with you. Women are moody – that’s natural. Surprisingly, they also find moody men more attractive than happy men. But I digress… But when a woman is fully, totally, ultimately happy especially with her relationship, her happy hormones are more predominant than her sad stressful hormones. She does not pick up PMS fights, she gets mad at you only for a reason and it’s never lingering, and she is generally in a great mood with you even when everything else around her is crappy, you are doing a great thing.
- You can see it in the way she looks at you. The eyes, truly, are the windows to one’s soul. There’s a loving, lingering, bright look in a woman’s eyes when she’s happy. It’s almost like her eyes are smiling when you look at her. When you can see this randomly, you have a happy lady right there.
How to Keep Her Happy
How to keep a lady happy varies from one woman to another. But in general, you can count that you can always make her happy with the following:
- Stay loyal. Nothing beats loyalty in making a woman happy.
- Remind her that you love her as much as you can. Look into her eyes when telling her that you love her.
- Compliment her. This always works.
- Take her on random dates. Surprise her even without occasion.
- Kiss passionately. Cuddle more often.
- Remember important dates – including PMS and period weeks.
If these don’t work, do yourself a favor. Review your lessons in meeting new women. SIBG techniques on how to pick up girls always work wonders!