She’s a head turner. She’s a total star. She can suck in all the air in the room and she could get all the attention in a minute. And there is hardly anyone who does not know her. Yes, she’s Miss Popular and the world moves in slow motion when she walks in. Or at least that’s how you imagine things are.
Oh, and you’re so lucky to be dating her.
If you’re looking for a trophy girl, someone that you date just to drag and brag around, this may be the best opportunity for you. This may in fact be the best thing that could ever happen to your dating life – dating the most popular girl at school or at the workplace. This may seem like a natural ‘birthright’ for the naturally popular guys but if you’re less than popular, and you’re not used to the idea of being popular, this may be a bit more challenging than you think.
If you’re dating the most popular girl around and you feel less than confident around her, here are some tips that may help you move around more comfortably and more easily with your Miss Popular:
- Increase your confidence by making yourself better. What makes you feel better about yourself? Lack of confidence is one reason why women reject men. Who would like to date a wimp? Do you think you need to dress better? Do you need to improve your stance? Or the way you walk? Whether it’s something internal or external, an improvement done to yourself will not fail to make you feel so much better about yourself. No, it’s not about doing it to impress her or doing it to feel more ‘worthy’ about dating such ‘prominent’ lady in the eyes of the people who know you both; you’re doing it because you want to be feel better about yourself.
- Be proud of who you have. One way to feel more comfortable about dating a really popular and beautiful girl is to be proud of what and who you have. Not everyone you know gets that chance and opportunity to be dating the girl everyone covets and you are getting it, you are enjoying it. Best of all, you are the envy of a lot of men around you and I believe you’ve just earned their and many other women’s respect over your chance at being the honorary Mr Popular. Bask in the moment, son!
- Always be your best self and don’t mind what everyone else says. This is one of the techniques on getting a girl. So you’re no Brad Pitt to be dating your very own Angeline Jolie. SO what? What matters is that you are the very best version of yourself. And that’s what matters. To hell with what everyone says! At the end of the day, it will be between you and Miss Popular and everyone else outside of it could eat their own words. Live your relationship by your rules and don’t mind what everyone else says because they don’t matter.
Finally, do not let your fear and insecurity take you over. You’re amazing too, you know! And Miss Popular has seen exactly that so go ahead and enjoy your very popular date! *Wink*