In this busy world we live in, many of us have become a workaholic. While that might not look like a bad thing, the negative consequences of being a workaholic are.
So what are these negative consequences I speak of, you may ask? These are the exact same consequences that make dating a workaholic not much of a great idea. Here are some of them:
Workaholics are so compelled to work, they will neglect you.
Some workaholics even neglect themselves because they are so driven by their work. This has been explained before in a SonicSeduction.net guide on dating and seduction, so you should know by now. You will have no place in their busy lives, even if they say you do. For them, work is always on the first place, family, friends and you – the dear little boyfriend – will always be second.
They will hardly ever help you.
No matter what you need from them – help in the household or carrying groceries, the workaholic will put work over your needs and wishes. You are better off asking help from a toddler than from a workaholic woman; at least the toddler will genuinely care about you and your wellbeing.
They will pay no attention to you.
When they are working of thinking about working, you should never expect to receive any attention at all. They will fully concentrate on their job and will not take part in any social activities like going out or meeting friends. Here’s the deal. If you want to keep your woman happy, pay attention to her. Workaholics may lack this trait. That’s just about it. Simple.
Workaholics don’t take care of themselves, or at least, not well enough. And to try to have a relationship with someone that microwaves everything in order to save time, will end in a disaster. They live a mostly sedentary lifestyle and they will drag you into it. You will often end up being a stress dummy for them, which will cause huge tensions in the relationship. They stress will negatively impact both of you; making your bodies suffer from high blood pressure, headaches or even migraines
In the end, it is just a waste of time, and eventually workaholics may get rejected by women in the end because they can ruin a relationship.
But it’s often not what the workaholic does bring home that will lead to the unavoidable breakup, its more what the workaholic does not bring home: a warm personality and a clear mind, a real person to talk to and have fun with, a real date where she will have all of her attention for you.
If you still think the workaholic you have set your eyes on is worth the trouble, by all means, give it a shot. You can try counseling or having an intervention if her lifestyle is getting so bad it crossed the line. Or maybe a nice holiday can reset her mind and you might be able to talk to her about how you feel the relationship is going and where it is headed too if this behavior persist. But don’t be too disappointed if your lover chooses her work over you, it’s the workaholic’s nature to do so. See Sonic Seduction website http://sonicseduction.net/.